As family members get older, it’s almost inevitable that some everyday tasks become a little harder for them to manage, and their ability to maintain their usual routines, together with levels of self-care may diminish. Most of the time these changes are due to the natural ageing process and are nothing to worry about. But if the changes are becoming more acute, it could be a sign that your loved one needs additional support. 

So, how do you know if your relative is struggling? These lists may help. 

Normal signs of aging 

  • Not always remembering the correct word, name or date but generally remembering them later 
  • Needing some help with technology such as a microwave or computer 
  • Losing things but finding them later 
  • Occasional errors with handling money 
  • Not being sure of the day but able to work it out 
  • Reluctant to drive at night-time or further afield than previously 
  • Finding some daily tasks harder, such as cleaning or laundry, but still managing them for the most part 

Signs your loved one may need help 

  • Struggling to follow a conversation or engage with friends and family 
  • Repeating themselves 
  • Asking the same questions repeatedly 
  • Forgetting important dates 
  • Forgetting how to do tasks they could previously complete without help 
  • Mobility issues 
  • Bruising from falls 
  • Anxiety about social situations, or becoming withdrawn  
  • Loss of memory 
  • Decline in personal hygiene 
  • Difficulty concentrating 
  • Mood changes  
  • Regular confusion over the correct coins/notes to use when shopping  
  • Confusion over time and place, or when in unfamiliar environments 

If a loved one has been exhibiting some of these symptoms, it is worth keeping an eye on them to see if they develop further. They may only be mild and show gradual deterioration, in which case they are termed ‘mild cognitive impairment’ or MCI as the symptoms are not severe enough to be diagnosed as dementia.  

However, if you are noticing these signs more frequently, ask your GP for advice.  

 Getting help when and where it is needed 

 If your loved one needs help, there are a wide range of solutions available. One of these is home care, which enables them to feel supported and safe whilst remaining independent in their own home. We can provide experienced carers who will visit them once a day, or more frequently if required, to help with shopping, household tasks, a cup of tea and a chat or, if needed, support with daily routines. Home care enables you or your loved one to tailor care to suit specific needs when you can’t be there to provide that assistance yourself.  

Assist Care Group has a team of professional, compassionate and dedicated carers, with years of experience. Contact Assist Care Group if you and your loved one would like to discuss how we can support them.